Working from home is new and unfamiliar territory. If not managed properly, it can also pose many unforeseen challenges.
• Identify personal and professional stressors that you may have experienced during the lockdown or community quarantine, and the work-from-home situation
• Describe personal strengths and resources in navigating through the pandemic
• Develop new ways of managing stress, burnout, and other potential mental health issues, given the current work-from-home situation
• Create a personal self-care program to ensure a work-life balance
For the eighth session of the MaxiLIFE Well-being Webinar, we will be discussing “The Work from Home Phenomenon: How to Achieve Work and Home Life Balance”
Date: October 28, 2020 (Wednesday)
Join us by clicking on this link to sign up: http://bit.do/MaxiLIFEWebinar-TheWFHPhenomenon
The event is open to all, with prices indicated below:
Maxicare Member: FREE
Non Maxicare Member: P300
DAVAO CITY 07 October 2020 – The Department of Foreign Affairs (DFA) Consular Office (CO) in Davao City held a special webinar entitled “Taking Care of My Mental Health During the Pandemic” via Google Meet on 03 October 2020, with Dr. Maria Caridad H. Tarroja, PhD, RPsy as the resource speaker.
During the webinar, Dr. Tarroja discussed how the COVID-19 pandemic, along with public health measures such as social distancing, affects a person’s mental health. She shared the iCOPE strategy in taking care of one’s health by having a Compassionate Heart, Open Mind, Purposeful Spirit, and Engaging Body. She emphasized the benefits of self-care and the importance of planning and conducting self-care activities for a healthy mind and body.
In her closing remarks, Consular Office Officer-in-Charge Delza Lourdes D. Bayabao said that it is important to stay informed, stay connected with family and friends, look after one’s self and support each other to be able to cope during these difficult times. She thanked Dr. Tarroja for a very interesting and informative webinar and for sharing ways on how to take care of mental health that will truly benefit the personnel at work and at home.
The activity was organized by the Consular Office’s Gender and Development (GAD) Focal Point Officer Leila W. Fabian-Sulit, together with Alternate GAD FPO Karen G. Margallo as Moderator. The Resource Speaker, Dr. Maria Caridad H. Tarroja, PhD, RPsy, is Vice President of the Psychological Empowerment to Resources and Aspirations, Inc. She is the former President of the Psychological Association of the Philippines and was awarded 2016 PAP Outstanding Psychologist. END
SOURCE: Department of Foreign Affairs
Read more here: https://dfa.gov.ph/dfa-news/dfa-releasesupdate/27870-dfa-consular-office-in-davao-city-conducts-webinar-on-mental-health-care-during-the-pandemic
GMA News 24 Oras featured clinical psychologist Dra. Caridad Tarroja on 'Positive Distraction' during the ongoing pandemic situation Expert: Use ‘positive distraction’ to deal with anxiety, stress due to COVID-19 threat
“Positive distraction” is one of the activities people can do to help them deal with their anxiety and stress amid the coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19) pandemic, according to an expert.
In Cata TIbayan’s report on “24 Oras” Thursday, psychologist Dr. Maria Caridad Tarroja said it’s normal to be anxious and stressed about the ongoing health crisis. However, it’s not healthy if the person thinks of the problem for the whole day.
Dra Tarroja is an associate professor at the De LaSalle University and a practicing clinical psychologist.
She is also the Vice-President of the Psychological Empowerment to Resources and Aspirations (P.E.R.A.), Inc.
Read more here: https://www.gmanetwork.com/news/lifestyle/healthandwellness/739346/expert-use-positive-distraction-to-deal-with-anxiety-stress-due-to-covid-19-threat/story/?utm_source=GMANews&utm_medium=Facebook&fbclid=IwAR2blhVJMRM61I4U_cq4TVPoAjBRt9EyYhMBIuKr4jKrlTW44Yaldnq2x40
Dra. Caridad Tarroja shared her advice on the 'New Normal Anxiety' experienced by people during the pandemic period.
Dra Tarroja is an associate professor at the De LaSalle University and a practicing clinical psychologist.
She is also the Vice-President of the Psychological Empowerment to Resources and Aspirations (P.E.R.A.), Inc. (www.perapinoy.com)
FB LINK: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=198291264721371
Dr. Ronaldo A. Motilla, also known as Doc Ron or Ronnie, has finally released his most awaited inspirational book which depicts transformation in life.
The book is all about triumph after overcoming battles in life.
Learn more about the book from the people who have read it.
We hope that the book will inspire and spark a sense of hope to those who are struggling in the journey in life.
Let the book of Doc Ron show you the way to a purposely positive life.
-- the P.E.R.A. team
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There are many ways to incorporate your hobbies to promote your own mental health such as painting, knitting, or even dancing.
These activities can work quite well for artistic people, but there are also other expressive ways that can help when you are feeling down. One of these is writing therapy, and its psychological effects have been widely recognised.
This form of therapy was developed by James Pennebaker in the late 80s. Since then there has been much research that has revealed how beneficial it is: ranging from improving symptoms of those suffering from irritable bowel syndrome, asthma and rheumatoid arthritis; as well as helping with recovery from childhood sexual abuse and postpartum depression.
It has also been proven to improve the state of mind for those with Parkinson’s, cancer and other health conditions.
A sensitive yet intriguing question especially if ones’s ultimate concern is on financial investment - the most common concern of people nowadays. Kaya ang tanong na, "Meron ka na bang pangalawang Pag-IBIG?" Masasagot mo ba ngayon?
The word Self-care or Tender Loving Care is commonly used in the day to day conversation among Filipinos. We have hair salons, foot spa, nail spa, brow spa, and different types of self-care clinics including the most recent ones – eyelash spa. We see them almost every day in television commercials, and in almost every mall in the country. All of them promoting awareness in how to take care of oneself, and each one of them end up with a huge impact on our bank accounts.
Getting the balance between giving ourselves some much-needed TLC (tender loving care) and making savvy spending choices can really be tricky. The issue is not in giving oneself a reward after a month of hard labor or a Saturday visit in one’s favorite hair salon because these will lead to a happier and healthier life. The issue is on the hefty price tag that comes along with it.
Positive Psychology is the newest field in Psychology which focuses on the scientific study of happiness and flourishing. Its founder, Dr. Martin Seligman from the University of Pennsylvannia, published in 2011 a book entitled Flourish: A visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-being. In this book he introduced the New Theory of well-being which provides the answer to the elements that will make individuals happy and how to live a flourishing life. These significant factors include (1) positive emotions, (2) engagement, (3) relationships which are positive, (4) meaning in life, and (5) accomplishments. A handy mnemonic is PERMA. Seligman mentioned that this framework can also be applied to various groups and organizations to create programs and services that will assist individuals develop new cognitive and emotional tools.
Let us discuss each one.
P – Positive Emotion.
1. This component of the new well-being theory is one of the most recognizable connections to happiness. However, having positive emotion does not only entail smiling, but rather acquiring an ability to be optimistic and looking at the past, present, and future from a positive standpoint. This optimistic view in life can assist individuals in their relationships, careers as well as in their daily routines. This can also encourage them to be more creative and take more chances or moderate risks in life that promote personal growth and development.
2. Everyone experiences both highs and lows in life. However, focusing on the unpleasant experiences can increase the chances of developing depression. Thus it is essential to focus on the pleasant and the brighter side of life. In fact, one needs to be more optimistic and hopeful in order to flourish. There are also many health benefits to optimism and positivity.
3. This idea is well supported by the theory of “Broaden and Build of Positive Emotions” developed by Dr. Barbara Fredrickson. She believes that individuals who experience many positive emotions (e.g., gratitude, enjoyment, interest, awe) are more open-minded, creative, and flexible thinker, capable of envisioning the big picture of their life. Dr. Frederickson also mentioned that, on the average, those individuals who posted higher wellbeing and who are also flourishing in their life experience at least 3 more positive emotions than negative emotions.
4. There are many ways to experience positive emotions. Some of these methods include, but not limited to the following:
Savoring the moment
Being with nature
DEAD END. A word that is somehow synonymous to RETIREMENT, or at least, that’s how many (if not all) perceive it to be.
In our day-to-day conversation, the common statements we normally hear are ¨Sobrang busy ako para isipin pa yan,¨ or ¨Matagal pa mangyayari yan sa akin.¨ Most Filipinos especially our kababayans locally and abroad are busy on their jobs and other things which they consider more important in life. Once in a while, the thoughts of retirement temporarily crop up but never linger. Maybe whenever boredom and difficulty arises at work, they bring themselves to think about retirement with more seriousness. And, that’s when regret sets in. The thought of, "I should have planned ahead" becomes more common.
¨Ready ka na ba mag-retire?¨ This question often leads to diverse answers. However, the common one usually leads to the world’s superhero Batman – "BAHALA NA SI BATMAN!"
A result from the study conducted by the Hongkong and Shanghai Banking Corp (HSBC) showed that the younger generation spends high in leisure expenses. Accordingly, they prefer to enjoy life in the present and not worry about the uncertainty that the future might bring. In the Philippines, the phrase, “Bahala na si Batman!” is a common answer when young people are asked about their retirement. This kind of attitude shows that they don’t appear to recognize the implications of these financial outgoings and the effect that it can bring on their lifestyle when they retire. The opportunity to invest while they are still young is clearly vague to most of them.
Indeed, we see people in their 30’s or 40 who are earning a lot. Yes! Most of them are at the peak of their jobs, businesses, and earning more money than the older generation. They earn more, and they splurge more. Yet they are also at the height of family duties and settlement of debts. The close family ties setting at home calls for obligations. Family financial obligation is close to the hearts of Filipinos. Hence, the ‘sandwich effect’ experience is common among Filipinos with financial obligations to their parents and/or siblings, and often to other relatives as well. But despite of these numerous financial obligations, there are some people who find ways to set a small part of their earnings for retirement — a goal that must be re-evaluated carefully by Filipinos nowadays.
Retirement should be synonymous to the word ‘PEACE OF MIND’. A house built on a solid foundation with a clear blue print gives the owner an assurance that the house will serve as a sanctuary against flood, the rubbles of earthquakes, and the likes.
Retirement should be built on the premise that you are building a stable future for the anticipated old age. A well-structured plan should be in place. After which you can relax. Routine checkups will keep you on track. And, in between check-ups go visit your kids and grandkids, travel the world, enjoy your hobbies or develop new ones. You can even do some charity work, or do whatever it is that you have always wanted before hitting the twilight zone. If you have a solid plan prepared, money will be the last thing to worry when you retire. As they say, "Money may not buy you happiness but it will surely give you comfort".
Every day is SABADO DAY! That’s how retirement should be. It should be a time to enjoy the remaining years of your life. So, forget about Batman or any other superheroes! You can be in charge of your future! You can be your own superhero who can lead yourself to the so called land of bliss!
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by Zell Sulit, MA
Zell has an MA in Counseling Psychology from the Ateneo de Manila University and completed the Registered Financial Planner program (RFP) Philippines.
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